A lot of our families that are getting a puppy have young children so I thought I would share this great article by Cesar Millan
A balanced pup can teach a child so much more than how to properly care for an animal. In fact, studies have found that a pet encourages a child's physical, social, emotional, and cognitive development. Children who have pets are more likely to have higher self-esteem, develop better social skills, and even have more friends! Who doesn't want that for their child?
Here are just a few of the lessons your dog can impart to your human little one.
- Love and Loyalty
There are few (if any) species on earth that boast the devotion that comes naturally to a dog. Coming home to that happy face and wagging tail every day without fail can help your child develop confidence and self-esteem.
- Exercise
Dogs provide a wealth of opportunities for your child to get active — joining for the walk, romping around the backyard, or playing a game of fetch. They also serve as an example of why exercise is so important. Dogs need regular physical activity to stay emotionally and mentally balanced — that's true for humans, too.
- The Importance of Family
Dogs are naturally pack animals, and research shows that they bring out that instinct in humans, too. Families spend more time interacting after getting a pet. Use your dog as an opportunity to connect. Get the whole pack out for walks, playtime, and even grooming.
- Reading
Can't help your child practice reading because you have to cook dinner? No problem. Your dog can take over for awhile. Research shows that he may actually do a better job than you anyway, particularly if your child is struggling. Why? Children are more relaxed, likely because a dog is a nonjudgmental audience.
- Patience and Compassion
A dog isn't capable of all the things that humans are, and as your dog ages, she will require special care and attention. Understanding those differences can help your child learn to be patient and compassionate with those who suffer from disabilities, the elderly, and younger children.
- Communication
Reading your dog's body language can help your child pick up on non-verbal communication between humans, too. You can encourage this by taking the time to teach your child about common cues. It's beneficial for his safety around other dogs, too.
- Socialization
One study asked children what advice they had for kids who had trouble making friends. Their answer? Get a pet. Dogs encourage your child to put their communication skills to use. Since dogs serve as an easy icebreaker and a shared interest, it makes meeting new friends easier.
- Trust
If your child has trouble opening up to you, he may still feel comfortable talking to his dog, providing a safe outlet for private thoughts and secrets. The trust he builds with his dog can help him eventually learn to open up to others, too.
- Responsibility
The more your child is involved in the care of your animal, the more she'll learn about responsibility. Let your child take the lead on providing for your dog's basic needs (with your supervision, of course).
- Silliness
Sure, dogs help teach responsibility, but more importantly, they also serve as a reminder to let loose, have some fun, and live in the moment. There are few things more fun (and mood-boosting) than acting nutty with your pup.
Let's be honest: most of these lessons are valuable for adults, too.
